User has been moderately disruptive, particularly on LGBTQA+-related topics, and had been getting worse lately. On 12/08, they responded "ignore it if you don't like it" when it was pointed out that discussions of suicide can be triggering:
2020-12-08 11:40:00 Reecepedia: i used to have panic attacks a lot a lot and it was hard because they would happen in public places and people would instinctively like put there hand on my shoulder or like make contact with me to reassure me but it would make things w o r s e
2020-12-08 11:40:01 Snow_: Who has the.seen message of "transmasc memes for testosterone deprived teens?"
2020-12-08 11:40:27 Kufat: Snow_: taffeta
2020-12-08 11:40:35 Snow_: Nice
2020-12-08 11:40:36 ARD: lol
2020-12-08 11:40:41 ARD: .seen taffeta
2020-12-08 11:40:42 Sean_SMST: Nobody has really noticed me having panic attacks because I'm so reserved and I can't really cry
2020-12-08 11:40:45 ARD: bless them
2020-12-08 11:40:56 MerryChristMars: Good lord
2020-12-08 11:41:02 Snow_: They say that they're still out there looking for memes
2020-12-08 11:41:25 Sean_SMST: only time I actually cry is when I get very suicidal
2020-12-08 11:41:33 Snow_: wishes they were T deprived
2020-12-08 11:41:36 Sean_SMST: or grief
2020-12-08 11:42:06 Sean_SMST: bruh
2020-12-08 11:42:20 Sean_SMST: he brought up the panic attacks and paranoia tho
2020-12-08 11:42:31 DrFalalalalaham: *kit/she, not he
2020-12-08 11:42:33 Peggnoguin: .pronouns Snow!
2020-12-08 11:42:38 Peggnoguin: .pronouns Snow_
2020-12-08 11:42:59 DrFalalalalaham: You also specifically mentioned the S word
2020-12-08 11:43:06 DrFalalalalaham: Which can make a lot of people uncomfortable
2020-12-08 11:43:08 Sean_SMST: cool
2020-12-08 11:43:20 DrFalalalalaham: Not against the rules, just letting you know
2020-12-08 11:43:29 Sean_SMST: Just ignore it if it affects you
2020-12-08 11:43:33 Sean_SMST: Everyone can do that
2020-12-08 11:43:34 DrFalalalalaham: Yeah that's not
2020-12-08 11:43:37 DrFalalalalaham: How that works
2020-12-08 11:43:41 Sean_SMST: But it is
2020-12-08 11:43:54 Sean_SMST: If someone says something you don't like, you don't have to respond to it right
2020-12-08 11:43:58 Sean_SMST: Same in text
2020-12-08 11:43:59 DrFalalalalaham: It's kinda not? And that attitude will not get you far here.
2020-12-08 11:44:11 Sean_SMST: Ok but that's how it is in the real world mate
2020-12-08 11:44:16 DrFalalalalaham: Responding to something and being affected by it are not the same thing
2020-12-08 11:44:46 Sean_SMST: if it affects you and you don't feel comfortable, then if you don't respond to it, then the topic changes 90% of the time
2020-12-08 11:44:55 Sean_SMST: like a joke that doesn't land or a take you don't like
2020-12-08 11:44:56 DrFalalalalaham: …no?
2020-12-08 11:45:00 Sean_SMST: yeah?
2020-12-08 11:45:05 DrFalalalalaham: If you feel uncomfortable you have every right to say it
2020-12-08 11:45:18 DrFalalalalaham: Because why would you assume the topic would change if nobody says anything about it?
2020-12-08 11:45:30 Yellow: Yeah, this topic makes me uncomfortable as well, and I can't really just ignore it
2020-12-08 11:45:40 Yellow: I'd appreciate if we switched subjects
2020-12-08 11:45:46 Sean_SMST: because if nobody responds, then the topic was bad and then it forces someone to switch subject
2020-12-08 11:45:51 gee0765: hello we are switching subjects now
2020-12-08 11:45:52 gee0765: op order
2020-12-08 11:45:53 Sean_SMST: like rn
2020-12-08 11:45:55 Oli_Drawer: Can I ask a question ?
2020-12-08 11:45:57 gee0765: no more being stupid
2020-12-08 11:46:03 Reecepedia: [irrelevant link deleted because I don't have a lot of Wikidot karma and can't post links - Kufat]
2020-12-08 11:46:04 Sean_SMST: it's not being stupid
2020-12-08 11:46:12 gee0765: i think i said we were switching subjects
Additionally, the subject of Pride parades came up shortly after, which they responded to dismissively:
2020-12-08 12:12:54 Snow_: I really hope parades are able to happen in june
2020-12-08 12:13:00 QuadPhone: Oh,you just started. Fun fact, thats my favorite weapon in the game anyways lol
2020-12-08 12:13:13 Snow_: Bc I wanna go to a pride parade so bad lol
2020-12-08 12:14:26 QuadPhone: I went to a gay pride parade once. It was cool. I'd do it again. You know, once covid-19 fucks off.
2020-12-08 12:15:56 DrFalalalalaham: Yeah Quad I was playing before using the axe and it suuuuuuuuuucked
2020-12-08 12:16:02 DrFalalalalaham: Couldn't even make it to the cleric beast
2020-12-08 12:16:24 Sean_SMST: what do pride parades accomplish, I get a festival or something going on like a fair but what does a parade do
2020-12-08 12:16:25 QuadPhone: But the axe is good doe. The two handed charged r2 is good for knocking away bigger enemies
2020-12-08 12:16:46 Snow_: We get to be gay in public with other gay people
2020-12-08 12:16:56 QuadPhone: Sean_SMST. Well, we walked around in a mass gathering and just…enjoyed ourselves, I guess. It was just nice.
2020-12-08 12:17:17 QuadPhone: Also I'm a cis straight dude and wanted to show support
2020-12-08 12:17:30 Snow_: And it's like a, "We're here. We exist. You can't hide us" for me
2020-12-08 12:17:36 Yellow: I've always wanted to go to a pride event, but I live in a conservative neighborhood, and my parents don't let me out much.
2020-12-08 12:17:40 DrFalalalalaham: Quad: the R1 combo was too slow
2020-12-08 12:17:45 Snow_: It means different things for different people
2020-12-08 12:17:48 Yellow: They sound like a lot of fun!
2020-12-08 12:17:55 MerryChristMars: Pinged by R1 combo
2020-12-08 12:18:03 Sean_SMST: I don't get it really, you're just kinda walking from a to b together but other than that not much. I get it if it's like artsy with puppetry or designs or something
2020-12-08 12:18:10 Reecepedia: [irrelevant link deleted because I don't have a lot of Wikidot karma and can't post links - Kufat]
2020-12-08 12:18:19 MerryChristMars: Too bad my child put a quarter in my ps4.
2020-12-08 12:18:26 Reecepedia: Here's how the thumbnails of the artcast will work
2020-12-08 12:18:32 QuadPhone: DrFalalalalaham timing, fam. It's aight tho, not every weapon will be to everyone's tastes.
2020-12-08 12:18:44 Reecepedia: Cheems will be replaced with an SCP that was drawn in the Episode
2020-12-08 12:18:53 Snow_: Iirc there's more involved but I've never been to one
2020-12-08 12:18:53 MerryChristMars: SCP-5974
2020-12-08 12:18:57 Reecepedia: and christ alive children
2020-12-08 12:19:12 Snow_: I honestly just wanna go to see more people like me
2020-12-08 12:19:43 Snow_: And like, engage with them
After these incidents, it was decided that a future similar incident would result in a ban. The following conversation regarding gender identity occurred on 12/09:
2020-12-09 09:19:28 Sean_SMST: oi
2020-12-09 09:19:42 Sean_SMST: how's it going
2020-12-09 09:20:15 War_: everything's on fire
2020-12-09 09:20:21 Sean_SMST: as always
2020-12-09 09:20:37 Snow_: I am currently questioning both my gender and sexuality atm so this is fine
2020-12-09 09:20:40 Sean_SMST: it's pretty standard now
2020-12-09 09:20:43 War_: ah a mood
2020-12-09 09:21:06 War_: bITCH KNOCKED ON MY WINDOW AND SCARED TF OUTTA ME
2020-12-09 09:21:15 Snow_: LMAO
2020-12-09 09:21:26 War_: brb gonna go throw hands @ my friend
2020-12-09 09:21:26 Sean_SMST: I moved past questioning gender and sexuality like a year and half ago
2020-12-09 09:21:38 Sean_SMST: alright war
2020-12-09 09:21:54 Snow_: I realized I was trans back in march? i think
2020-12-09 09:22:19 Peggnoguin: War_: Your window? Are you on the first floor?
2020-12-09 09:22:19 Sean_SMST: I would think if you were trans you would've known a lot earlier than that
2020-12-09 09:22:33 Sean_SMST: like when you're in elementary or something
2020-12-09 09:22:40 Peggnoguin: Yeah, no.
2020-12-09 09:23:09 Sean_SMST: alright, I know people who knew since they were prepubescent
2020-12-09 09:23:13 Kufat: Sean_SMST: many people don't realize that they are/begin to identify as trans until well into adulthood.
2020-12-09 09:23:21 War_: Peggnoguin: aye
2020-12-09 09:23:33 Snow_: Yeaeh
2020-12-09 09:23:37 War_: also hi i didnt start to know i was trans until i was 17
2020-12-09 09:23:42 War_: because i didnt have the resource availability
2020-12-09 09:23:45 Snow_: ^
2020-12-09 09:23:49 Peggnoguin: War_: I was going to say, that would be scary as hell if you were like, really high up.
2020-12-09 09:23:50 Sean_SMST: alright
2020-12-09 09:24:01 Snow_: I realized I was trans bc of exposure to trans peeps here ngl
2020-12-09 09:24:07 War_: the feelings can certainly be there from a young age but having those feelings and knowing what they are is two very different things
2020-12-09 09:24:12 Snow_: ^
2020-12-09 09:24:41 War_: some people don't find out until they're like. in their 50s or 60s and ive seen this esp commonly w transfem folks actually
2020-12-09 09:25:14 Sean_SMST: well that's because it was socially unacceptable for most of the time in the 20th century and before
2020-12-09 09:25:14 War_: to have the tools and resources to recognise those feelings etc is def a privilege of sorts
2020-12-09 09:25:31 Sean_SMST: that doesn't sound like they just found out, but they can only start being open about it
2020-12-09 09:25:51 Sean_SMST: like caitlyn jenner or however you spell that forename
2020-12-09 09:26:34 War_: she’s def not the best representation of trans people i’ll be real
2020-12-09 09:26:44 Snow_: ^
2020-12-09 09:26:57 Peggnoguin: She also committed vehicular manslaughter
2020-12-09 09:27:00 Snow_: Yup
2020-12-09 09:27:15 Snow_: And tried to make it harder for other transfem peeps to get what they need
2020-12-09 09:27:17 Snow_: iirc
2020-12-09 09:27:47 Sean_SMST: I've only seen one trans who's older, and man it looks weird. They clearly were too late for pretty much all the more natural methods of treatment and they could only go with a wig, female clothes and using a higher pitched voice
2020-12-09 09:28:18 War_: uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ops
2020-12-09 09:28:25 Sean_SMST: Oh Ik caitlyn jenner isn't a good rep for trans, but she's one of the only famous people who's in that age bracket who's trans
2020-12-09 09:28:29 War_: that was. very unnecessary to say dude
2020-12-09 09:28:35 stormfallen: Sean_SMST: bruh what the fuck
2020-12-09 09:28:36 Sean_SMST: what I'm being real
2020-12-09 09:28:41 muirrum: what
2020-12-09 09:28:47 muirrum: that's a lovely thing to come back to
2020-12-09 09:29:02 Lily: "One trans"
2020-12-09 09:29:06 Snow_: hides under a soup strainer
2020-12-09 09:29:08 muirrum: :/ dude
2020-12-09 09:29:12 Sean_SMST: Sean_SMST was kicked by Lily for: come back when you can be respectful
Weeklong.
